The guys and girls take turns handing out roses to the person they're most connected with, and if you get a rose, you get to stay. Meanwhile, there are dates to be gone on, food and drinks to be consumed, oceans and pools to be swum in, and even a special room designed just for getting busy. It knows exactly what it is, and it defines itself clearly in the opening credits each week as a show that asks an erectile dysfunction specialist to seductively eat a banana.Everyone lives in swimsuits and spends their entire days and nights casually dating the other beach dwellers. It's in on the joke, even while host Chris Harrison and the contestants, for the most part, really want us to believe that there is actual love-finding going on in the sand. That makes it extra exciting when someone we're really familiar with arrives, or even when someone we've somehow never seen before shows up, shocking us all with the fact that there was once a firefighter named Carl who tried to woo Andi Dorfman.One of the most deserving returning characters this season was Carly Waddell, who suffered last season's most brutal break-up thanks to Kirk De Windt.Kirk and Carly were one of the most stable couples, and she was already talking marriage and babies, thinking Kirk was on the same page.He was totally not, but he waited to reveal that fact until right around when the couples were supposed to be heading out on overnight dates, meaning they were about as serious as could be after 18 days.He dropped that knowledge on her with no warning, and it was so devastating to all of us that it happened over a year ago on a reality show and we still haven't gotten over it.Jenner also acknowledges that surgery itself doesn't have any bearing on someone's gender identity: "Transitioning is about nothing else but your soul," she told BEVERLY HILLS, CA - FEBRUARY 28: TV personality Caitlyn Jenner arrives at the 2016 Vanity Fair Oscar Party Hosted By Graydon Carter at Wallis Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts on February 28, 2016 in Beverly Hills, California.(Photo by John Shearer/Getty Images)BEVERLY HILLS, CA - FEBRUARY 14: Chris Rock, A. Calloway and Caitlyn Jenner attend the 2016 Pre-GRAMMY Gala and Salute to Industry Icons honoring Irving Azoff at The Beverly Hilton Hotel on February 14, 2016 in Beverly Hills, California.
They are sex on a plate." But is physical chemistry enough to make a relationship last in a world outside Playa Escondida resort in Sayulita, Mexico? Of course, Grant Kemp and Lace Morris would be the first to tell you otherwise, based on the fact that they recently got tattoos as evidence of their everlasting love.(Photo by Tibrina Hobson/Getty Images)LOS ANGELES, CA - OCTOBER 27: (L-R) Chandi Moore, Candis Cayne, Caitlyn Jenner and Geena Rocero attend Logo TV's 'Beautiful As I Want To Be' Web Series Launch Party at The Standard Hotel on October 27, 2015 in Los Angeles, California.(Photo by Gabriel Olsen/Film Magic)LOS ANGELES, CA - OCTOBER 27: Caitlyn Jenner attends Logo TV's 'Beautiful As I Want To Be' Web Series Launch Party at The Standard Hotel on October 27, 2015 in Los Angeles, California.reports."I don't have the appetite for [sex], which is why the public's obsession over whether I would [get gender confirmation surgery] is annoying to me," the 67-year-old Olympian reportedly writes."It hearkens back to this [misperception that people transition because of their sexual desires]( While gender identity and sexuality are distinct, they're still often conflated — but as Jenner makes clear, she transitioned because she was a woman, not because of her sexuality.